i need advice (involiving bullies)

[sarafina]

ok my sister was going to my great grandmas house with my parents and one of the kids that is mean to me at school came outside, saw her shadow in the car, and thought it was me, so she started making mean faces at her and she gave the mean girl the finger (good for my sister, who is seventeen if you are wondering) so to keep from getting labeled a jerk until i leave to go to college (which i am going to get as far away from kentucky as i can) i came up with a few plans and i need to know which one to use

- wait about two or three days to go back to school, by then someone else would probly be getting talked about because they did something embarressing

- bug my mom into letting me transfer schools (think about it, if i transfer to another middle school that feeds into the high school my parents want me to go to i can make new friends and when i have to face the bullies again in high school i wont be alone, but if i dont the people that i could have been friends with will probly follow the bullies infulinces and i will be a loser until i finish high school)

- tell people that she gave me the finger first

[Vestara]

- Fight the bullies.

[sarafina]

if i did that i would get suspended and then i would be grounded for life

[PinkCrystal]

Say it was your sister.

[Forlin-Langor-Chulain]

- Be yourself, and don't care about what those other people say.

If they judge you for things, so what? People use the finger all the time, and worse. To just judge you for a single thing would be a stupid thing, and it's not worth caring what they think. Just be yourself, Ember. You're a great kid. You're better than them, and I'm sure you'll find some worthwhile friends that are certainly better than than the filthy people who would judge you.

I wish I could be there to knock some sense into them...perhaps with a kangaroo morph. Haha.

But anyway, just be yourself, Ember. There's nothing wrong with you, and you shouldn't let other people rule your life.

[Deleted]

yeah, you know what you should do? just kick their butt! don't care if it gets you in trouble!

[Deleted]

actually don't follow that advice, forget it. natural instinct, my species is violent.

[Moka-Ithsilla-Adromeda]

What Forlin said. Be yourself, don't care what people say to you or call you names and give you the finger. I had bullies in my life from primary schools (I was in 5 different primary schools) to high school. I just been myself and ignored them or just cuss them with out using swear words.